FRIENDSHIP...

WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP???

If this question is asked to anyone, then different people give various opinions on friendship based on their point of view. Now let me share my opinion...
FRIENDSHIP is that relation which is eternal and has a beauty in itself. The most beautiful and wonderful relationship in this world is parents-children relationship. Friendship comes next. People often say, love is the best relationship but i say love is nothing but a special friendship.

First, when you enter this world mother is your first friend and the closest one too. Next comes your father who plays with you and makes you happy and keeps you smiling. As you grow up, you meet lots of people and you start enjoying their company, this is friendship at the first stage. There are some people to whom you will be very close and hangout every time with them. You share your joys and sorrows and inturn they too share with you and you all will help out each other. Some become true friends and some not. Some be with you for your money and some for your life.Some value you and some may not. Its upto us, how we treat them and get treated by them. Infact we do our best to be best at their side and maintain a relationship which will sustain forever. But some people even being treated good, just leave you alone when you need them the most.

Friendship is independent of gender, status and whatever factors there. Nowadays a trend has emerged, people be friends to enhance their relationship to LOVE. And the most saddest part is, people misunderstand the meaning of friendship. Friendship and good manners carry you where money wont go.

Friendship may be of different forms but friendship is always a best relationship ever existed till date.
Some people don't want to be friends as they want to enjoy alone but I say there will be a point of time where you will be in a need of friends. Having many friends is not great, having good true friends is great, even though it may be one. Friends are the only people who will always be there with you for your better way.
I too wasn't a believer in friendship, but slowly I realised that having a friend is the greatest gift ever given to me by God. Whenever I'm in sorrow, friends run to me and try to solve my problems. Even though you won't show your sorrows to them, they can see it on our face. Friendship has no limit for anything. True friends are hard to find and hard to leave them too. True friends fight but soon forget everything and get on track again. One of the most important thing in friendship is understanding, if this lacks their cannot be a successful friendship in this world. Friends are the only people to whom you can talk or do whatever you want without any hesitation. Its only friends come to you last not the money or any thing else required for enjoyment.

Lets talk about friendship between a BOY and a GIRL... this is bit confusing but I'll share my opinion...
Friendship, which is said as the best relationship in this world is bit confusing topic when it comes between a boy and a girl. Friendship between a boy and a girl is considered to be somewhat else as you all know. Whenever we see a boy talking a girl we comment. Most common comment: "She is his Gf". Girlfriend seriously doesn't mean something bad. we have mistaken the meaning of girlfriend, its a common trend nowadays. People say a boy and a girl cannot be friends, Why not??? Are the couples not friends of each other?? It all depends on one's mentality. As I said earlier, Friendship is independent of external factors. Infact I would say, a boy needs a friend who's a girl and vice versa too...

Nowadays its very easy to get friends and even to break up too. The breakage in the bond takes place by several factors, main reason is lack of understanding or there may be some other reason. I would say a loss of a friend is the biggest loss of your life.
Never leave friendship, it hurts a lot. Have as many friends you want but be equal to all and be happy. Be a reason to others smile. Always give love and never expect anything back because love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into a friend. If you help a friend, dont expect him to help you back,someone else will help you for your need. God is watching everything so do good always.

Don't walk behind me, I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend..Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art...It has no survival value, rather it is one of those that give value to survival..So be friends always and live your life...

FRIENDS FOREVER... 

        

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