After years of experience,
People be it friends, best friends make you feel important only for some time and the time when they need you. When initially you become friends they talk and interact with you nicely and the graph goes on decreasing day by day. It just means that they lay a nice foundation in our life so that whatever happens or whatever they do, their foundation remains intact. They don't talk to you so often, are not that interested in you like before because they got other interesting people or things around.
We spend so much time just for them but they don't find it a value. As time passes, our conversation becomes formal and after it's an irritation for them. People say do good to others, be friendly with all and don't expect anything in return. I think this is invalid now. Do you think the same?
Our so called friends once needed our attention so much that they used to get angry when we neglected unintentionally for a while but when we expect a little attention from them now, we don't get anything and we cannot be angry also.
I think being good to all is a curse in this era. It's all about competition and selfishness in the world. There are some people who are true and good may be around 1% like the pure water availability in the world. We are so busy in our life concerned about our career, dreams and so on that we forget what is around us and we lose those important people who care about us and expect a little time from us (1% people).
People say once we are friends it's for lifetime and you can also see some quotes saying that if you have friendship in your heart and even if you don't talk or communicate with those for a long time, then it's completely fine and it won't affect the friendship. This is just nonsense in my opinion. A relationship be it love, friendship or anything, if there is no communication then no relationship can exist. Misunderstanding is due to lack of communication. So give little time to your loved ones everyday.
We always think about our friends and all these nonsense stuffs, but we always miss our parents in this scope. Our parents, our family don't expect anything from us. They just want us to be happy and be succesful in our life. Instead of thinking all nonsense and giving too much time to all useless people in your life, give that same time to your loved ones(1%) and parents. Believe me your life will change.
Time changes, people change. What can we do.? Nothing. Can't leave them. Can't hold them.
Think about it.
Everything happens for good, this is what i believe everytime. Everthing is for a reason. Every person is our life is either a blessing or a lesson. Good luck
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